An Exercise in Passive-Aggressive Self-Defense
The soccer publication is oddly uninspiring, yet curiously compelling. Its title is confusing. Dear England currently is used by a popular play, an future TV show, and a public letter authored by Gareth Southgate in 2021.
This version of Dear England isn’t officially tied to any of those. It represents an oddity in the expanding Dear England universe, a book about guidance: a traditionally dull elite football manager trope that Southgate sticks to persistently, employing the words “leadership”, “guiding” or “management” at least 500 times across its 336-page length.
Questions Posed
“What are leaders? What actions do leaders take? And what do leaders know?” he asks early on, setting out his stall, but stopping short to explore “Why are leaders?”, questions presumably saved for a second book.
Additionally, this publication has a book-shaped hole at its core. It’s an attempt in indirectly hostile personal vindication, in almost-but-not-quite saying the underlying truth, skipping nimbly from unsettled score to unscabbed wound across a series of pie charts, business clichés and discussions about historical figures.
Engagement
Going through the book is like listening to your family members having a polite but profoundly personal argument in the nearby area while you’re attempting to concentrate on a corporate presentation named “Countless Explanations for My Eventual Success”. But it is also impossible to stop reading, as the author keeps drifting near to an issue you actually wish to discover, before suddenly veering away.
Disclosures
The book contains typically attention-grabbing disclosures in works like these, explained by the intense interest with the role of England manager. The most notable examples are: he resolved he was definitely going to resign as England manager after fans hurled containers at him at the Euros; he almost chose to forfeiting the game at mid-match against the Bulgarian team in 2019 after his squad members were racially abused; he pioneered the concept of set-piece coaches and the entire league in the top division is now copying him; he has now lost his love for the sport, a shocking admission briefly included in a single paragraph at the conclusion.
Managing England through a era of fury, optimism, turmoil and confinement was a harsh ordeal. The wounds are evidently still fresh.
Commonplace Material
Otherwise, the content is overrun with an computer-generated word-sludge of standard leadership chat. Advanced copies of this book were shared with critics under confidentiality clauses ahead of release, presumably out of fear someone might leak that “difficult conversations can, by their nature, be difficult”, that you should always consider the consequences, that leadership occurs where change meets understanding.
Sincere Expression
There is nonetheless authentic emotion present. Leading England through a time of anger, aspiration, turmoil and lockdown was a grueling ordeal. The bruises are obviously still fresh, albeit conveyed in a jargon-laden reimagining of the standard coach narrative: how my decisions were correct about each issue all along.
Notable Cases
Even book’s initial chapter, presented as exciting accounts of the final of the tournament, is entirely focused on how successful the manager actually was at substitutes (the major criticism of Southgate revolving around he wasn’t successful at substitutes). Further on, he goes into extensive analysis about how he handled the Euros final of 2021 flawlessly – notably the unsuccessful penalty shootout – because he followed a predetermined process, which must mean that bringing on young players very late to take the most important kick of their careers was logical and right.
This was confirmed by a victorious shootout against Switzerland four years later after a game where England spent 120 minutes looking as if they were attempting to don a sweater the inside out. “Our commanding performance in that tiebreaker was absolutely exhilarating,” he states, while comparing the performance to US Navy Seals eliminating a notorious figure. Oh Gareth.
Missed Opportunities
When we approach to a disclosure, the manager retreats from identifying individuals or sharing the substance. We discover there were difficult England squad members who required more attention, perhaps because they were pampered early in their professional journeys. But as you anticipate hopefully, Southgate is already veering off into a topic named a specific management theory, which states that instead of a grouping of characteristics or ideals, team environment is in fact a phenomenon that is created by, alas, please, no more.
Strengths
Within the better bits are when the author discusses about the gradual method of building mental toughness in young people, or how he tried to define Englishness more clearly and more constructively than any public personality in the limelight. Most impressively, there is a truly gripping description of that harrowing match in Sofia where England’s African heritage squad members were targeted with hatred (and afterwards supported robustly by their coach).
Sincere Finale
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